Whether you are a parent going through a separation or a child whose parents are splitting up, this section aims to equip you better to deal with the situation you are in.

There is advice and support on the emotional side, together with an explanation of the legal principles that exist as a safety net where arrangements cannot be sorted out.

Below are some details of counselling services websites that you may find useful. Quick links are also provided on the right hand side of this page.

Its not your fault 
A user-friendly, colourful website maintained by the NCH for children, young people and separating parents.

Childline
General website offering advice and help for children and young people. There is a specific section on stepfamilies.

there4me.com
General site for 12-16 year olds who are worried about something – it includes message boards for young people to share their concerns, and the option to talk to an NSPCC adviser. Maintained by the NSPCC.

Youth information
Information toolkit for young people, maintained by the National Youth Agency. It has specific sections on divorce and stepfamilies.

Kidsturn
American website to help children cope with divorce and their feelings.

Young woman's health
American website providing information for teenage girls, maintained by the Children’s Hospital Boston.

Connexions-direct
Connexions-direct provides information and advice for young people. This is an article aimed at 13-19 year olds about divorce. Young people can also talk to a Connexions adviser.