Potentially, yes it does. But it need not.
It can be important for the wife to instigate the proceedings so as to delay the application for decree absolute until financial issues have been resolved and made into an order of the court. Fiscal reasons for so doing are potential loss of pension rights and benefits.
The disadvantages of not being the one to initiate the divorce are that:
- you can be asked to pay for the legal fees involved in the divorce – the court fees and the cost of preparing the documents (very roughly, £700 plus);
- the divorce might be based on your adultery or unreasonable behaviour, and particulars might be given;
- If the court grants the divorce and the details of the adultery or unreasonable behaviour have not been corrected, then you are stuck with them – the Court has made a finding of fact, and this could prejudice your position if accusations have been made about your parenting or about your financial life;
- If the divorce has started in a different country, you may not be able to use the English courts, either for your divorce, or for anything to do with your children or your money.